The Synchronicity Solution – Part II

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We’re continuing with our theme of synchronicity this month because it’s a very powerful concept and tool to help you navigate life with more flow and create what you want out of life. It helps you create the life of your dreams, whether that’s a beautiful soul mate or a wonderful innovative company.

Carl Jung defined synchronicity as “the acausal connection between two or more seemingly unrelated events.”

For instance, you’ve been thinking about a friend you haven’t seen in six months and then suddenly, you run into her in the grocery store. Or, your washing machine breaks and you need to buy a new one. Out of the blue, your neighbor says, “I’m getting a new washing machine and need to get rid of my old one. Any chance you want it?” What I want you to learn from this is that things you need can literally fall into your lap. You don’t have to plan it or agonize over it It can just come to you. And that’s one way synchronicity shows up in life.

Synchronicity works because we are part of a collective unconscious. What you believe draws people and situations to you. Therefore, for synchronicity to flow the best it’s important for you to know who you are and what you believe – what defines you.

When you define what you value, it’s easier to connect via synchronicity with the groups you resonate with.

One of the problems of not being able to create what you want is not being clear on who you are, meaning:

What defines you?

What is important to you?

What do you value?

For instance, if you want to create an empire of real estate properties to manage for residual income, but you also value freedom and the ability to travel at the drop of a hat – your subconscious probably is going to feel stuck on creating that because you managing properties means you have to be around at a moment’s notice if your tenants’ toilet clogs or the water heater breaks. So to create both, you need a solution – how do I keep my ability to travel yet have residual income from real estate?

One value that’s important to you is the belief “I value freedom” and on the other side “I value residual income” If those two values clash, synchronicity will have a hard time activating in your field. So you have to visualize a third concept that acts as a bridge between the two values –  “I can have someone manage the property so I can still get residual income and travel at the same time.” Just because you have two conflicting value sets doesn’t mean that synchronicity can’t happen. You just have to find a bridge to connect the two!

How has synchronicity shown up in your life recently? Comment below and let us know!

 

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The Synchronicity Solution

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You’ve probably heard the axiom that everything is a mindset → mindsets are ‘wardrobes’ or templates for you to ‘try on’ and ‘wear’ so to speak. These mindsets develop in a number of ways. Sometimes you inherit a mindset from your family, sometimes you pick them up from who you go to school with. But just like any wardrobe you have in your closet, even though you’re used to them it doesn’t mean you can’t change them.

A certain type of mindset from the collective unconscious draws people and situations to you → these are the foundation of synchronicity. Here are a few common mindset traps that people tend to fall into. See if you can notice them more consciously in your own life:

  1. The Life is a struggle mindset
  2. The I’m so busy mindset
  3. The I’m better than so and so at _______ mindset
  4. The Poor me mindset
  5. The Middle class run kids to endless soccer and have no adult personal identity mindset
  6. The Collect the most stuff mindset 

What mindsets do you find yourself wearing? Notice which ones help you and which ones hold you back.

Here’s a recent story from my own life about my mindset and synchronicity…

I’m learning to wear the mindset of Life brings me what I need. For example, I was meditating and told the universe I wanted a small town vibe where I would run into people I know and love often (right now, I live in a large city that’s growing too fast). Show me where I go. What town is it?

 Then two days later, I was going to a new herbalist and as I walked out of the office at the end of my appointment, my neighbor was walking in to see the same herbalist! That night at dinner, I saw my new web designer at the restaurant with his sister who’s a teacher at my daughter’s school! The universe brought me lots of synchronicities.

Next week we’ll talk about some positive mindsets you can learn to wear.

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Intuition & Logic

MR LIGHTMANToday we’re going to talk a bit about intuition and logic…

“Excellence is not a singular act, but a habit. You are what you repeatedly do.” ~ Aristotle

Recently, I’ve had some past students and coaching clients ask me to teach a series of classes on my tools blending intuition + logic, it would be kind of like an Oprah Super Soul Sunday feel. You’d learn useful tools blending innovative ideas in logic + intuition.

Come learn ways to achieve excellence, de-stress AND be your optimal self in our Intuitive Logic Technologies Class.

In the 6-week Introductory course, we’ll be discussing the concepts and techniques noted below:

  • We are basically made up of electromagnetic energy, some cultures call it ‘chi’.  Science is just beginning to explore this.
  • With a clearer understanding of how the human energy system works, you can clear out patterns that no longer serve you and create new ones.
  • You can more easily calm your mind and be at peace. It doesn’t have to be a mystery really; it can be a useful pragmatic skill.

In this course, you will learn great tools and also meet like-minded, interesting people.

Courses like this are a lot of fun to teach, and are also a lot of hard work. I’m putting the word out there right now to see how many of you are interested in a program like this. With enough interest generated, I’ll move forward with the program. If you have any interest and feel you can commit to the program schedule, shoot me an email and let me know (Let me know if you would prefer in-person or virtual)!  Also, feel free to invite friends who would be interested.

The full certification program would be delivered in two parts. For more information, check out the info below:

Part 1: The Introductory 6-week course

Time: Mondays from 7 to 9pm at my office. Start date: TBA

Fee: $499 for the 6-week Introductory Course.

This 6-week Introductory course will cover topics like:

  • Module 1: Introduction to Intuition – Overview of Concepts and Implementation – week 1 and 2.
  • Module 2: Defining your space and keeping ‘junk’ out – what parameters to keep safe/concepts of protection so you feel calm and optimal functioning – week 3 and 4.
  • Module 3: Defining your secure self and optimal self – week 5.
  • Module 4: Defining your secure self: Define your strengths and weakness/make a plan to clear and optimize/integrate left brain and right brain archetypes and processes – week 6.

PART 2: 6 month Intuitive Logic program (with an optional Certification)

This 6-month course which will cover topics like:

  • Fundamental Concepts of Intuition
  • How the Game of Life is Woven
  • Working with Advanced Concepts – Precognition/Synchronicity/Higher Knowing Processes
  • Professional Training in my Intuitive Logic Technologies coaching techniques (optional add-on for those of you that would want to use this as a coach or mentor to others in your life.)

Have a wonderful week and I hope to see you soon!


To Learn More:
Check out the mp3, Past Life Regressions for Spiritual Success, to help you implement these concepts more readily.

Check out The Temple Priestess Chronicles, a book that helps you integrate the masculine energy with the feminine energy, and has guided imagery scripts to take you through helpful meditations.

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The Benefits of Community

Hello, friends! I wanted to share a handout about the benefits of communal living from a recent conference I presented at. It explores what community is and why it benefits us individually and as a group. Enjoy!

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To Learn More:
Check out the mp3, Past Life Regressions for Spiritual Success, to help you implement these concepts more readily.

Check out The Temple Priestess Chronicles, a book that helps you integrate the masculine energy with the feminine energy, and has guided imagery scripts to take you through helpful meditations.

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What is “Past Life Regression”?

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Many people have had moments of uncanny familiarity in an unfamiliar place, glimpses of something as if from a memory that you haven’t made yourself…of knowing something which you haven’t learned in this lifetime… déjà vu…or even a strong sense of connection with someone that you have just met. These feelings can be fleeting, or very deep. Some people can discount them as ‘a weird moment’, while others are compelled by them to seek an answer.

There are many possible explanations. Some explain the phenomenon as evidence of reincarnation, parallel universes, or genetic memories. Some see it as messages from our unconscious mind speaking in allegory, or as evidence of connections with a higher consciousness – really, the source is perhaps less significant than the messages themselves.

“Past Life Regression” is basically the structured induction of a focused state of awareness to access these memories and messages. It allows you to open up a pathway to consciously experience these buried connections to a higher source of understanding, and can help provide insight into how these glimpses shape our here-and-now lives. It can help you to:

  • discover patterns that you get stuck in and how to release those patterns,
  • find clues to why you feel a certain way with certain people,
  • provide insight into your deeper yearnings,
  • accelerate your personal evolution and fulfillment of your dreams.

Often, it’s a mystical adventure into ‘other-wheres’, done for the sheer pleasure of exploration and discovery.

Whether you are looking for answers, to resolve some issue, to assuage a pain beyond this life, or to tour the mystical history of your soul, a past life regression session can be a remarkable and deeply rewarding experience.

Have you done any past-life regression before? I’d love to hear what you learned!

‘Money Muse’ (c) Barbara Cox


To Learn More:
Check out the mp3, Past Life Regressions for Spiritual Success, to help you implement these concepts more readily.

Check out The Temple Priestess Chronicles, a book that helps you integrate the masculine energy with the feminine energy, and has guided imagery scripts to take you through helpful meditations.

 

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Who you are – and may not know it yet!

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Who you are – and may not know it yet!

My gut instincts told me you needed to hear this today –

Even though you may feel uncertain, your plans are now rolling along well – and you are starting to consider even more opportunities to expand your current plans and maximize your potential. Everything will progress steadily, as you keep your persistence going and dedication online.

You are at a point where you can see all that lies ahead and are aware of the impending challenges and the many opportunities in your life. Your feet are planted firmly on the ground, even though you are a budding visionary, you are committed to your future plans, blending both logic and intuition.

I know that you have opportunities to expand your horizons even more – that may be through study, travel, business enterprises and learning new things.  There are many opportunities that exist for you right now that you may not even be aware of.  It is time to remain open minded and think big, big, big.  Connect and cooperate with people or groups you may not have connected to in the past. Your opportunities may involve lots of interesting travel.  Consider what you can do to open doors for yourself to new places and people.  I know that change can be challenging, but this is part of expanding your opportunities and entering new horizons.

So, I want to help you embrace change and allow your inner visionary to shine through! You may just be realizing that – you control what happens around you. Release fear!  I’m here to help you embrace your vision and bring it to completion. You have many wonderful opportunities all around you. Reflect – and then resolve to transform past challenges into victory.

Leave a comment below to tell us what change you’re facing right now… we love to hear from you!

‘Money Muse’ (c) Barbara Cox


To Learn More:
Check out the mp3, Past Life Regressions for Spiritual Success, to help you implement these concepts more readily.

Check out The Temple Priestess Chronicles, a book that helps you integrate the masculine energy with the feminine energy, and has guided imagery scripts to take you through helpful meditations.

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Building Confidence

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Sometimes changing our thoughts and actions takes a little bit of practice… consider it the stepping stone to building the life you want. To do this, we can take a few minutes each day to practice how we want to show up in different circumstances.

Write out a script where you behave with confidence in a specific situation at work that may have been slightly uncomfortable in the past. Write the script as if it has already happened.

Leave a comment below to let us know what you learned from this exercise… we love to hear from you!

‘Money Muse’ (c) Barbara Cox


To Learn More:
Check out the mp3, Past Life Regressions for Spiritual Success, to help you implement these concepts more readily.

Check out The Temple Priestess Chronicles, a book that helps you integrate the masculine energy with the feminine energy, and has guided imagery scripts to take you through helpful meditations.

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What Are You Good At?

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Sometimes it can be hard to remember what we’re good at or what we do well, so it is helpful to write it down:

What are 20+ positive qualities about you?

Write about this example in your journal and don’t be afraid to ask friends or family for help if you need ideas.

Leave a comment below to let us know what success looks like to you!

‘Money Muse’ (c) Barbara Cox


To Learn More:
Check out the mp3, Past Life Regressions for Spiritual Success, to help you implement these concepts more readily.

Check out The Temple Priestess Chronicles, a book that helps you integrate the masculine energy with the feminine energy, and has guided imagery scripts to take you through helpful meditations.

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Treat God Like a Little Dog

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Treat God Like a Little Dog

One afternoon about five days ago, I was reflecting on my current work (and of my life, really) and what my next steps could be. A friend of mine said, “Treat god like a little dog.” At first I was confused… almost aghast. What did she mean? Regardless of your spiritual beliefs, how could you treat god like a dog?

Then she clarified. She explained that you have to be very specific when asking god for something. Don’t leave it unclear. Be very direct, very precise. You say exactly what you are looking for and then ask god to go fetch. I pondered that idea for a while, and tucked it away in the back of my head.

So later, I asked the universe to help me find some help with social media. I’m good at a lot of things, I can even help people grow their work with the tools I teach, I love my work helping people, but sales-y social media … that’s just not my forte. It drains my energy and leaves me empty. But, everyone says ‘you need to do Twitter – do social media’. So, I said ‘ok universe, find me a good social media marketer’ (I probably added a grumble about what is the purpose of Twitter as well, but that is another story).

On a personal note, I also told the universe, “I want someone to go to the French café Café Masilia with me.”

Fast forward to yesterday… I was chatting with a potential client and they said they have connections with a company that specializes in social media marketing. They’ve helped businesses grow even larger, and this person thought it could be a good fit for me. Low and behold… there’s the social media help I asked for.

My potential client continued, saying “This group usually meets at this café called Café Masilia, down the street. You should meet them there next week to talk about your needs.” Now, I don’t have to tell you what just happened… both of my requests were answered in one single conversation. I am a former scientist and used to teach statistics, so I had to ask myself what were the odds of that happening… and I found I only had one answer.

The point of this story is synchronicity. Synchronicity is about meaningful coincidence and its appearance in real life – at home, in the office, as you walk down the street. This was not a senseless, simple coincidence. It is evidence of something bigger happening. When you work with synchronicity, amazing things happen.

The term synchronicity was coined by Carl Jung. It is the acausal connection of two or more events. His development of this concept came to him as he was working through an impasse with one of his clients. Her exaggerated rationalism was holding her back from assimilating unconscious material that would help overcome her impasse and transform. One night, the client dreamt about receiving a necklace with a golden scarab on it – a cetonia aurata. The next day, during the session, an insect flew into Jung’s window. Jung caught it and discovered, surprisingly, that it was a golden scarab; a very rare presence for that climate and area. He handed it to the client and said, “Here is your scarab”.

Synchronicity happens to me a lot. I told the universe (I think of it as the ‘system’) what we needed, and it fetched it for me. I think if we all learn how to consciously activate synchronicity (and it is a learn-able skill), our lives will become easier and it will revitalize our communities – maybe even improve the economy. I have many more stories about synchronicity that I’ll share in future blogs, as well as more tips on how to activate the state. I believe that synchronicity points to the fact that we are all connected – let’s connect in a spirit of sharing and cooperation, shall we?

‘Money Muse’ (c) Barbara Cox


To Learn More:
Check out the mp3, Past Life Regressions for Spiritual Success, to help you implement these concepts more readily.

Check out The Temple Priestess Chronicles, a book that helps you integrate the masculine energy with the feminine energy, and has guided imagery scripts to take you through helpful meditations.

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Turn A Negative Thought Positive

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What is one way you can re-frame the negative thought, “I am not smart enough or confident enough”, with a thought that is more positive and balanced? For instance:

Can you think of one example where you received an award or compliment for at least one talent you have. 

Write about this example in your journal and don’t be afraid to ask a coach or trusted friend for help if you need ideas.

Leave a comment below to let us know what success looks like to you!

‘Money Muse’ (c) Barbara Cox


To Learn More:
Check out the mp3, Past Life Regressions for Spiritual Success, to help you implement these concepts more readily.

Check out The Temple Priestess Chronicles, a book that helps you integrate the masculine energy with the feminine energy, and has guided imagery scripts to take you through helpful meditations.

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